As featured in The Guardian 30+ years of practice

Tantra workshops in the UK: your invitation to connection & pleasure

Conscious intimacy retreats for women, men and couples. A refined, trauma-aware space for over 30 years.

  • Featured in The Guardian
  • 30+ years guiding workshops
  • Trauma-aware & women-led
  • Welcoming women, men & couples

Start Your Journey: The Gift Economy

Level 1 is offered through a Gift Economy to make your first step accessible and low-risk. Experience the safety, care and depth of our work before deciding your next level.

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See the work for yourself

A short introduction to who we are, how we hold the space, and what makes our workshops feel so safe and transformational.

Tantra courses and retreats

A safe, practical and spiritually grounded path for deep transformation.

Confidence & self-worth

Greater self-esteem and ease in your body and relationships.

Trauma-aware safety

Skilled facilitation and clear boundaries so you can explore safely.

Practical tools & rituals

Techniques to deepen pleasure, connection and aliveness.

Release old patterns

Let go of limiting beliefs that block intimacy and joy.

Paths for everyone

Programmes for women, individuals, couples and advanced practitioners.

Spiritual renewal

Channel sexual energy toward healing and wholeness.

We are respected experts in designing and delivering workshops for women, men and couples.

Investment in You

Our retreats are designed around high safety standards: experienced facilitation teams, premium private venues, and a curriculum refined over three decades.

Expert Staffing

A strong staff-to-participant ratio so no one is left unsupported in vulnerable moments.

Sanctuary-Level Venues

Private, comfortable spaces that support healing, integration and deep rest.

30 Years of Refinement

A proven body of work continually refined for safety, clarity and transformation.

Introducing

Hilly Spenceley

Co-founder & Senior Facilitator

Hilly’s approach is very grounded and practical, coming from her deep understanding of family and intimate relationships. She is known for her wisdom, joy, love and total acceptance within her workshops and is very skilled and experienced in running groups, of which she has over 30 years’ practice.

Hilly Spenceley

Safety & Care

A conscious space for men and women

Shakti Tantra programmes are designed and led by women, with over 30 years of practice. They rest on a trauma-informed, consent-based foundation that welcomes women, men and couples, so you can explore at your own pace, held with care.

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Women-led foundation

Lived experience, empathy and emotional safety shape how every programme is designed and held, in mixed groups and women-only work alike.

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Freedom from rigid expectations

Come as you are, without conventional pressures or societal expectations to live up to. A supportive space for men and women to build presence, self-awareness, and more fulfilling connections.

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Consent and care

Personal choice and mutual respect guide every exercise. You may pause, adapt or decline anything that does not feel right.

What Participants Say

“I found a joyful sense of myself as a fully sexual being which has changed how I view relationships”

“Your teaching as always was inspiring and brilliant and I will be back for more”

“…releases an energy that pervades all of life. We are all ‘ordinary people’ and it’s in all of us. Thank you.”

“Company of a lovely group of women – beautiful workshop space – sense of freedom”

“It was a privilege and a pleasure”

“I never realised how powerful ritual is in unlocking buried desires and needs”

“Mind blown, heart grown, seed sown – deep, inspiring and beautiful”

“What soft and delicious pleasure, remembering, reclaiming and rejoicing in my innocence”

“Body rewiring with heart and mind back to child-like innocence”

“Elementary, truthful, expansive, clarifying, sexy, funny, full of love”

“I love and need this work”

“I find it deeply healing for myself”

“I feel unbelievably energised and nurtured”

“Combination of love, fun and learning is truly wonderful”

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